<![CDATA[bringemhome : RSS Feed]]> MyPage.com http://www.mypage.com/activity/user/bringemhome/summary/page+page_comment/all/0 <![CDATA[Contact Details (Child Abuse)]]> http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/Contact+Details+%28Child+Abuse%29 http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/Contact+Details+%28Child+Abuse%29 12/01/08 22:12 Child Abuse Service Provider

Childline

Tel: 0800 055 555

Mail PO Box 32453, Braamfontein, 2017 Street TMI Building, Joubert Street Extension, 3rd Floor, JHB

E-mail children@active.co.za

Website www.childline.org.za

Office Hours 08:00 to 16:00

After Hrs/Emergency 231 1111 ; Code 5515

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 Warning from the FBI to all Children

These organized Criminals are SEEKING OUT CHILDREN! - RUNAWAYS falling prey to them - TEENS ONLINE giving out personal information that can literally cause them to disappear! "PARENTS" PLEASE "talk with" your Children!

FBI CRACKS DOWN / Child Prostitution RING

http://www.fbi.gov/pressrel/pressrel08/topten_062708.html

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The Problem in Perspective

According to a 2002 report by the U.S. Department of Justice, an estimated 797,500 children are reported missing each year. About 12,100 of these cases are classified as non-family abductions, and of these the number of "stereotypical" abductions - involving a stranger or slight acquaintance who keeps the child overnight, transports him at least 50 miles, holds him for ransom, takes him with the intent of never returning him, or kills him - is extremely small.

  • A law enforcement survey found that 115 missing children in the year studied fit the description of a stereotypical kidnapping.
  • In 40 percent of stereotypical kidnapping cases, the child was killed.
  • Nearly half of stereotypical kidnapping victims were sexually assaulted.
  • Ten percent of stereotypical kidnappings lasted longer than 24 hours.
  • At 69 percent, the majority of stereotypical kidnapping victims were girls.
  • Seventy-two percent of stereotypical kidnapping victims were white. A child's chances of being abducted by a stranger are rare, and the likelihood that the kidnapping will end in murder are rarer still. There is approximately one child abduction murder for every 10,000 reports of a missing child, according to a report prepared by the Attorney General of Washington state. This rarity is a major reason why worst-case scenarios get the most attention, with the murders of two California girls, Danielle van Dam and Samantha Runnion, most recently making headlines across the United States. Missing children who have been murdered can also claim as part of their legacy improvements in the ways we keep kids safe and find those who are lost, as in the cases of Adam Walsh and Polly Klaas. <<< Click on the images at the left to find out which children are at the greatest risk and who is most likely to harm them.


    Sources: U.S. Department of Justice, National Center For Missing And Exploited Children

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     missing

    DEAN DE WET 

    29 Years Old Mother (Needs medication)

    last seen

    SUNDAY 21 OCTOBER @ Doodles in Tableview with an older male in a White Combi/Kombi

    Deanne has dyed her hair blonde since this pic was taken

    Approx. 1.53cm tall and Speaks fluent French.

    PLEASE CALL her mother Pam : 079 381 5304

    or

    Alex Fryer on 083 650 4585

    or

    Samantha on  0790806870 or via email:  coogirlcc@gmail.com

    ___________________________________________________________________________________

     

     Warning from the FBI to all Children

    These organized Criminals are SEEKING OUT CHILDREN! - RUNAWAYS falling prey to them - TEENS ONLINE giving out personal information that can literally cause them to disappear! "PARENTS" PLEASE "talk with" your Children!

    FBI CRACKS DOWN / Child Prostitution RING

    http://www.fbi.gov/pressrel/pressrel08/topten_062708.html

     
     
    Forever Searching - banner

     

    The Problem in Perspective

    According to a 2002 report by the U.S. Department of Justice, an estimated 797,500 children are reported missing each year. About 12,100 of these cases are classified as non-family abductions, and of these the number of "stereotypical" abductions - involving a stranger or slight acquaintance who keeps the child overnight, transports him at least 50 miles, holds him for ransom, takes him with the intent of never returning him, or kills him - is extremely small.

  • A law enforcement survey found that 115 missing children in the year studied fit the description of a stereotypical kidnapping.
  • In 40 percent of stereotypical kidnapping cases, the child was killed.
  • Nearly half of stereotypical kidnapping victims were sexually assaulted.
  • Ten percent of stereotypical kidnappings lasted longer than 24 hours.
  • At 69 percent, the majority of stereotypical kidnapping victims were girls.
  • Seventy-two percent of stereotypical kidnapping victims were white. A child's chances of being abducted by a stranger are rare, and the likelihood that the kidnapping will end in murder are rarer still. There is approximately one child abduction murder for every 10,000 reports of a missing child, according to a report prepared by the Attorney General of Washington state. This rarity is a major reason why worst-case scenarios get the most attention, with the murders of two California girls, Danielle van Dam and Samantha Runnion, most recently making headlines across the United States. Missing children who have been murdered can also claim as part of their legacy improvements in the ways we keep kids safe and find those who are lost, as in the cases of Adam Walsh and Polly Klaas. <<< Click on the images at the left to find out which children are at the greatest risk and who is most likely to harm them.


    Sources: U.S. Department of Justice, National Center For Missing And Exploited Children

    • ]]>         <![CDATA[Deleted New Page]]> http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/ http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/ 10/09/08 00:14 <![CDATA[Sexual Abuse]]> http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/Sexual+Abuse http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/Sexual+Abuse 10/07/08 15:20 Warning Signs

    When a child:
  • Reports an instance of abuse by a parent or caregiver
  • Has difficulty walking or sitting
  • Suddenly refuses to change for gym class or refuses to take part in physical activities
  • Demonstrates bizarre, sophisticated or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior
  • Becomes pregnant or contracts a venereal disease, particularly if under 14 years old
  • Runs away

    Or when a parent:
  • Shows an extreme protection toward the child, to the extent where the child cannot have contact with other children, especially with children of the opposite sex
  • Is secretive and isolated
  • Describes marital problems involving family power struggles or sexual relations

    What To Do

    The American Academy of Pediatrics says that the first important action to take if a child tells you about sexual abuse is to take what the child says seriously. Many children who report sexual abuse are not believed, and when a plea for help is ignored, the child may not risk telling again.

    If the abuser is a friend or family member, parents will often try to stop sexual abuse themselves, but the AAP reports that a parental intervention is almost always unsuccessful.

    Instead, they recommend reporting abuse to a local Child Protective Services, and also asking for crisis support help. Also, discussing the problem with the child's pediatrician, who can offer support and counseling, can help.

    After sexual abuse is reported, what happens depends on the circumstances of the case. The risk of further abuse to the child is the first concern for authorities. The offender and the entire family may be required to attend a treatment program, and the offender may even face criminal charges. If the child's safety is in question, authorities can take the offender or victim out of the home during the investigation.

    In order to prevent sexual abuse, the AAP suggests teaching children what sexual abuse is. Tell them they can and should say "no" or "stop" to adults who may threaten them sexually. Make sure they know that it's okay to talk about any attempt to molest them - no matter whom the offender may be.

    The AAP also suggests that prevention measures should begin early since a number of child abuse cases involve preschoolers. They offer these guidelines for age-appropriate topics to discuss with children.

    Age:
  • 18 months: Teach your child the proper names for body parts.
  • 3-5 years: Teach your child about "private parts" of the body and how to say "no" to sexual advances.
  • 5-8 years: Discuss safety away from home and the difference between being touched in private parts of the body and other touching. Encourage your child to talk about scary experiences.
  • 8-12 years: Stress personal safety and give examples of potential problem areas: arcades, malls, locker rooms, out-of-the-way places outdoors.
  • 13-18 years: Re-stress personal safety and potential problem areas. Discuss rape, "date rape," STDs and unintended pregnancy.

    • ]]>         <![CDATA[Home Page]]> http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/Home+Page http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/Home+Page 10/06/08 01:45 Warning from the FBI to all Children

    These organized Criminals are SEEKING OUT CHILDREN! - RUNAWAYS falling prey to them - TEENS ONLINE giving out personal information that can literally cause them to disappear! "PARENTS" PLEASE "talk with" your Children!

    FBI CRACKS DOWN / Child Prostitution RING

    http://www.fbi.gov/pressrel/pressrel08/topten_062708.html

     
     
    Forever Searching - banner

     

    The Problem in Perspective

    According to a 2002 report by the U.S. Department of Justice, an estimated 797,500 children are reported missing each year. About 12,100 of these cases are classified as non-family abductions, and of these the number of "stereotypical" abductions - involving a stranger or slight acquaintance who keeps the child overnight, transports him at least 50 miles, holds him for ransom, takes him with the intent of never returning him, or kills him - is extremely small.

  • A law enforcement survey found that 115 missing children in the year studied fit the description of a stereotypical kidnapping.
  • In 40 percent of stereotypical kidnapping cases, the child was killed.
  • Nearly half of stereotypical kidnapping victims were sexually assaulted.
  • Ten percent of stereotypical kidnappings lasted longer than 24 hours.
  • At 69 percent, the majority of stereotypical kidnapping victims were girls.
  • Seventy-two percent of stereotypical kidnapping victims were white. A child's chances of being abducted by a stranger are rare, and the likelihood that the kidnapping will end in murder are rarer still. There is approximately one child abduction murder for every 10,000 reports of a missing child, according to a report prepared by the Attorney General of Washington state. This rarity is a major reason why worst-case scenarios get the most attention, with the murders of two California girls, Danielle van Dam and Samantha Runnion, most recently making headlines across the United States. Missing children who have been murdered can also claim as part of their legacy improvements in the ways we keep kids safe and find those who are lost, as in the cases of Adam Walsh and Polly Klaas. <<< Click on the images at the left to find out which children are at the greatest risk and who is most likely to harm them.


    Sources: U.S. Department of Justice, National Center For Missing And Exploited Children

    • ]]>         <![CDATA[Home Page]]> http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/Home+Page http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/Home+Page 10/02/08 11:51 The Problem in Perspective

    According to a 2002 report by the U.S. Department of Justice, an estimated 797,500 children are reported missing each year. About 12,100 of these cases are classified as non-family abductions, and of these the number of "stereotypical" abductions - involving a stranger or slight acquaintance who keeps the child overnight, transports him at least 50 miles, holds him for ransom, takes him with the intent of never returning him, or kills him - is extremely small.

  • A law enforcement survey found that 115 missing children in the year studied fit the description of a stereotypical kidnapping.
  • In 40 percent of stereotypical kidnapping cases, the child was killed.
  • Nearly half of stereotypical kidnapping victims were sexually assaulted.
  • Ten percent of stereotypical kidnappings lasted longer than 24 hours.
  • At 69 percent, the majority of stereotypical kidnapping victims were girls.
  • Seventy-two percent of stereotypical kidnapping victims were white. A child's chances of being abducted by a stranger are rare, and the likelihood that the kidnapping will end in murder are rarer still. There is approximately one child abduction murder for every 10,000 reports of a missing child, according to a report prepared by the Attorney General of Washington state. This rarity is a major reason why worst-case scenarios get the most attention, with the murders of two California girls, Danielle van Dam and Samantha Runnion, most recently making headlines across the United States. Missing children who have been murdered can also claim as part of their legacy improvements in the ways we keep kids safe and find those who are lost, as in the cases of Adam Walsh and Polly Klaas. <<< Click on the images at the left to find out which children are at the greatest risk and who is most likely to harm them.


    Sources: U.S. Department of Justice, National Center For Missing And Exploited Children

    • ]]>         <![CDATA[To School and Back - safely]]> http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/To+School+and+Back+-+safely http://www.mypage.com/bringemhome/page/To+School+and+Back+-+safely 09/29/08 01:46 Know the Rules...For Going To and From School More Safely

    Every day millions of children take to the streets and roadways to get to and from school. For many children this experience is a new one, and they may not understand or be able to use the safety rules. Young children do not have the same frame of reference for safety as adults do. They may not “look before they leap,” which is why it is so important for families to supervise young children and practice safety skills with their older children. The tips noted below will help prepare for a safer journey.

    Tips for Parents and Guardians

    1. Instruct your children to always TAKE A FRIEND and walk and ride in well-lit areas and never take shortcuts or go into isolated areas. When walking and biking teach them to stay aware of their surroundings and observe all traffic rules in place to more safely share the roads and sidewalks with others.

    2. Walk the route to and from school with your children pointing out landmarks and safe places to go if they’re being followed or need help. Make a map with your children showing acceptable routes to and from school. If your children wait for a bus, wait with them or make arrangements for supervision at the bus stop.

    3. If anyone bothers your children while going to or from school, teach them to immediately get away from that person and TELL you or another trusted adult. If an adult approaches your children for help or directions, remember grownups needing help should not ask children for help; they should ask other adults. Instruct your children to never accept money or gifts from anyone unless you have told them it is OKAY to accept in each instance.

    4. Even though there can be more safety in numbers it is still not safe for young children to walk to and from school especially if they must take isolated routes anytime during the day or night. Always provide supervision for your young children to help ensure their safe arrival to and from school.

    5. Instruct your children to leave items and clothing with their name on them at home. If someone they don’t know calls out their name, teach them to not be fooled or confused.

    6. Ensure current and accurate emergency contact information is on file for your children at their school. If you, or another trusted family member or friend, need to pick your children up, make sure to follow the school’s departure procedures. These procedures need to include the school’s confirmation of your children’s departure with only those you authorize to pick them up.

    7. Teach your children if anyone tries to take them somewhere they should quickly get away and yell, “This person is trying to take me away” or “This person is not my father/mother/guardian.” If anyone tries to grab them, teach them to make a scene and every effort to get away by kicking, screaming, and resisting.

    8. Teach your children if anyone follows them on foot to get away from that person as quickly as possible. If anyone follows them in a vehicle they should turn around, go in the other direction, and try to quickly get to a spot where a trusted adult may help them. Advise them to be sure to TELL you or another trusted adult what happened.

    9. Instruct your children to never leave school with anyone they don’t know. If anyone tells them there is an emergency and they want your children to go with them, teach your children to always CHECK FIRST with you before doing anything. Also teach your children to always CHECK FIRST with you if they want to change their plans before or after school. Make sure your children always play with other children, have your permission to play in specific areas, and let you know where they are going to be. Instruct your children to TELL a trusted adult if they notice anyone they don’t know or feel comfortable with hanging around them.

    10. Remember to practice these safety rules with your children to make certain they really know and understand them. Make the walk to and from school a “teachable moment” and chance to put their skills to the test. Teach your children to trust their feelings.

    Key Tips to Reinforce With Your Children

    1. Always TAKE A FRIEND with you when walking, biking, or standing at the bus stop. Make sure you know your bus number and which bus to ride.

    2. Say NO if anyone you don’t know or a person who makes you feel scared, uncomfortable, or confused offers a ride unless I have told you it is OKAY to do so in each instance.

    3. Quickly get away and yell, “THIS PERSON IS NOT MY MOTHER/FATHER/GUARDIAN” if anyone tries to take you somewhere or is following you. If anyone tries to grab you, make a scene and every effort to get away by kicking, screaming, and resisting.

    4. NEVER LEAVE SCHOOL GROUNDS. Always check with the school office before leaving school.

    5. NEVER take shortcuts or walk through alleys to get to or from school faster. We will talk about which way to go to and from school. Remind me of activities in which you participate causing you to leave earlier or arrive later than usual. Remember to call me once you have arrived home.

    For additional information about specific modes of transportation to and from school visit the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration’s website at http://www.nhtsa.dot.gov.


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